By Marcelina Hardy
He had an affair, but does that mean
he doesn't love you?
He betrayed you in the worst way
possible by having an affair. While
cheating on you may make you feel like
there is no way that he loves you, it's not
always that clean cut.
Men cheat for many reasons and most of
the time it's not because they don't love
their partners. When you hear him say,
"Please don't leave me ... I really do love
you," take into account some of the signs
that he is telling the truth.
1. He stops the affair. Knowing that
you are about to leave him scares him so
much that he stops the affair
immediately. He doesn't want to lose you
because you really are the one he loves.
2. He promises to do anything for
you. It can be difficult for men to lay
everything down on the line to win back
your heart. If he truly breaks down and
tells you he will do absolutely anything to
have you back, you may have someone
who truly does love you.
3. He seeks professional help. He
wants to know why he had the affair and
hurt the one person he loves most. To do
this, he seeks counseling to help uncover
the mystery, and show you that he is
serious; he didn't cheat because
he doesn't love you.
4. He admits his mistakes to
others. Men don't want to come clean
about their mistakes. If he tells everyone
how much he messed up, you know he
regrets what he did.
5. He follows through with
promises. If you've told him he must do
a list of things to show you he truly loves
you, and he does everything you ask, you
know that he is committed to you ... and
ONLY you.
It is hard to believe he didn't cheat on you
to hurt you, especially because YOU are
so hurt. Some men truly don't think
about their significant others when they
have an affair. It may not make any sense
to you, and it may make you want to run
far away from him so you never hurt
again, but this is something to consider. If
he truly didn't want to be with you, he
wouldn't do everything above.
He had an affair, but does that mean
he doesn't love you?
He betrayed you in the worst way
possible by having an affair. While
cheating on you may make you feel like
there is no way that he loves you, it's not
always that clean cut.
Men cheat for many reasons and most of
the time it's not because they don't love
their partners. When you hear him say,
"Please don't leave me ... I really do love
you," take into account some of the signs
that he is telling the truth.
1. He stops the affair. Knowing that
you are about to leave him scares him so
much that he stops the affair
immediately. He doesn't want to lose you
because you really are the one he loves.
2. He promises to do anything for
you. It can be difficult for men to lay
everything down on the line to win back
your heart. If he truly breaks down and
tells you he will do absolutely anything to
have you back, you may have someone
who truly does love you.
3. He seeks professional help. He
wants to know why he had the affair and
hurt the one person he loves most. To do
this, he seeks counseling to help uncover
the mystery, and show you that he is
serious; he didn't cheat because
he doesn't love you.
4. He admits his mistakes to
others. Men don't want to come clean
about their mistakes. If he tells everyone
how much he messed up, you know he
regrets what he did.
5. He follows through with
promises. If you've told him he must do
a list of things to show you he truly loves
you, and he does everything you ask, you
know that he is committed to you ... and
ONLY you.
It is hard to believe he didn't cheat on you
to hurt you, especially because YOU are
so hurt. Some men truly don't think
about their significant others when they
have an affair. It may not make any sense
to you, and it may make you want to run
far away from him so you never hurt
again, but this is something to consider. If
he truly didn't want to be with you, he
wouldn't do everything above.
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