A man putting you at ease is
important, but are you doing the
same for him?
Do you know how to create the kind of
intimacy that makes a man fall more
deeply in love with you every day? Read
on to learn the keys to making him feel
you're the one woman he can truly let
himself go with.
In order to have the relationship you've
always wanted, you need to be able to
create true intimacy with a man. Intimacy
isn't about being physical – it's what
happens when two people feel safe
enough to reveal themselves emotionally
in front of each other. It takes two to
create this kind of intimacy. Here's what
you can do:
1. Create The Necessary Safety
What makes a man fall for one woman
and not another? She's the one who
makes him feel accepted for who he is,
warts and all. Unless you can create this
safety with a man, he will not be able to
let his guard down with you...and share
the emotional intimacy required for a
lasting relationship.
A powerful way to create safety with a
man is to withhold judgment and show
him tons of appreciation. When you don't
judge a man or criticize him, he will feel
accepted by you. He won't feel that you
will reject him. As a result, he starts to
become more and more comfortable in
your presence until he realizes you are
the woman he needs in his life.
So, say a man takes you to see a show,
and it turns out to be a real downer.
Instead of talking about the finer points
of the performance, tell him how happy it
made you that he made plans with you,
and how great it feels simply to spend
time with him. When he feels he can do
things right with you, he will feel that you
appreciate and accept him for who he is.
The more he feels accepted, the more
intimacy develops.
2. Be Open And Vulnerable
Another way to instantly make a man feel
safe in your presence, let down his guard,
and create emotional intimacy is to allow
yourself to be vulnerable first. This
means you let him in on your real feelings
rather than keeping them bottled up.
Say you're on your first date with him and
you're feeling nervous. Tell him! When
you're not afraid to express how you feel,
he will find it endearing and feel it's also
safe for him to tell you what he's really
feeling.
When you speak from your heart, you do
something very powerful: you are
unleashing your inner Siren – the
mesmerizing, feminine part that makes a
man fall in love. And when that happens,
you're opening the door for more
intimacy than you've ever imagined.
3. Let Go Of The Need To Control
Real intimacy isn't forced or planned
ahead. It's what happens when you let go
of the need to know where things are
going and instead allow a relationship to
unfold naturally. Let yourself be
surprised.
The next time you go on a date, curb your
tendency to predict what will become of
you and this new man. Be fully present in
the moment; otherwise you are missing a
chance to build the kinds of moments that
will make him crave being with you.
Being fully present in the moment also
lets you be more in touch with your
feelings and express them to him. He'll
sense that you trust him enough to let
things unfold, and he will feel almost
compelled to come closer to you.
The intimacy — and relationship — you've
always wanted is totally possible when
you make a man feel safe and speak
directly from your heart. It's a magical
way to forge a connection so deep and
lasting with him, he won't ever want to let
you go.
Rori teaches women how to attract the
right man and have the kind of close,
connected relationship they've dreamed
of. To learn specific ways to relate to a
man – from the early stages of dating all
the way through a blissful commitment –
subscribe to Rori's free newsletter. You'll
discover a new, fun way to think about
relationships and dating that's all about
you, raises your self-esteem, and draws
the right man to you effortlessly.
important, but are you doing the
same for him?
Do you know how to create the kind of
intimacy that makes a man fall more
deeply in love with you every day? Read
on to learn the keys to making him feel
you're the one woman he can truly let
himself go with.
In order to have the relationship you've
always wanted, you need to be able to
create true intimacy with a man. Intimacy
isn't about being physical – it's what
happens when two people feel safe
enough to reveal themselves emotionally
in front of each other. It takes two to
create this kind of intimacy. Here's what
you can do:
1. Create The Necessary Safety
What makes a man fall for one woman
and not another? She's the one who
makes him feel accepted for who he is,
warts and all. Unless you can create this
safety with a man, he will not be able to
let his guard down with you...and share
the emotional intimacy required for a
lasting relationship.
A powerful way to create safety with a
man is to withhold judgment and show
him tons of appreciation. When you don't
judge a man or criticize him, he will feel
accepted by you. He won't feel that you
will reject him. As a result, he starts to
become more and more comfortable in
your presence until he realizes you are
the woman he needs in his life.
So, say a man takes you to see a show,
and it turns out to be a real downer.
Instead of talking about the finer points
of the performance, tell him how happy it
made you that he made plans with you,
and how great it feels simply to spend
time with him. When he feels he can do
things right with you, he will feel that you
appreciate and accept him for who he is.
The more he feels accepted, the more
intimacy develops.
2. Be Open And Vulnerable
Another way to instantly make a man feel
safe in your presence, let down his guard,
and create emotional intimacy is to allow
yourself to be vulnerable first. This
means you let him in on your real feelings
rather than keeping them bottled up.
Say you're on your first date with him and
you're feeling nervous. Tell him! When
you're not afraid to express how you feel,
he will find it endearing and feel it's also
safe for him to tell you what he's really
feeling.
When you speak from your heart, you do
something very powerful: you are
unleashing your inner Siren – the
mesmerizing, feminine part that makes a
man fall in love. And when that happens,
you're opening the door for more
intimacy than you've ever imagined.
3. Let Go Of The Need To Control
Real intimacy isn't forced or planned
ahead. It's what happens when you let go
of the need to know where things are
going and instead allow a relationship to
unfold naturally. Let yourself be
surprised.
The next time you go on a date, curb your
tendency to predict what will become of
you and this new man. Be fully present in
the moment; otherwise you are missing a
chance to build the kinds of moments that
will make him crave being with you.
Being fully present in the moment also
lets you be more in touch with your
feelings and express them to him. He'll
sense that you trust him enough to let
things unfold, and he will feel almost
compelled to come closer to you.
The intimacy — and relationship — you've
always wanted is totally possible when
you make a man feel safe and speak
directly from your heart. It's a magical
way to forge a connection so deep and
lasting with him, he won't ever want to let
you go.
Rori teaches women how to attract the
right man and have the kind of close,
connected relationship they've dreamed
of. To learn specific ways to relate to a
man – from the early stages of dating all
the way through a blissful commitment –
subscribe to Rori's free newsletter. You'll
discover a new, fun way to think about
relationships and dating that's all about
you, raises your self-esteem, and draws
the right man to you effortlessly.
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