knows that there's no magic formula for
making someone fall in love with you.
(Or in some cases, back in love with
you). However, you can up your chances
of making that special lady swoon by
following a few of these simple tips.
1) Be All Ears
Women like to work out their problems.
Offer a bended ear and fight the urge to
provide a solution or rush her to the
point. She just wants you to listen while
she vents, explains or just muses.
2) Compliment Her
A lot of women put a lot of effort into
looking nice for their date. Offer a flattering remark on her time well spent and she will be delighted that you noticed.
3) Throw a Pep Rally
Act as her cheerleader on life's sidelines.
Support her choices, feelings, successes
and failures and she will appreciate (and
lean on) her biggest fan.
4) Remember that Chivalry Is Not Dead
Man the door, pull the chair and wait for
her to be seated. Treating her like a lady
never goes out of style.
5) Focus All Eyes on Her
Focus on her with attention and interest.
Extracurricular gazing makes you look
bored and rude.
6) Leave a Message
Whether it's your first date or the tenth,
leave a message asserting how much you
enjoyed your time with her and how you
can't wait to see her again.
7) Growing Love
Bring or send her flowers because it's
Tuesday or for no reason at all. Better
yet, send them to work to make her feel
beautiful and appreciated.
8) Be Mr. Clean
You may not know it, but every time she
picks up your wet towel or cleans beard
clippings from the sink, the romance
wears off.
9) Play the Music Man
Learn how to play the guitar or hone
your singing voice. Ladies melt over the
simultaneous vulnerability and bad boy
coolness of confident rock stars. No
musical talent? Demonstrate passion in
a hobby that you love.
10) Clown Around
Hone your funny bone to encourage her
to feel comfortable, let loose and get
silly.
11) Drop It Like Its Hot
Shrug off the small things and let it go.
A diffusing attitude and cool demeanor
is always a welcome response to pending
crisis.
12) Keep it All In The Family
Woo her friends and family, too. Her
circle will be the first to comment on
your worthiness of her attention.
13) Take the Consultative Approach
Seek her advice, even if you don't really
need it. Consulting her shows that you
appreciate her opinion and that she is
useful and comforting.
14) Zip It
If you aren't complimenting members of
her inner circle, zip it. It's an instant
turnoff to hear a negative opinion about
those that have been in her life long
before you came along.
15) Get Lost
While prioritizing her in your life is
important, she can't be the only thing
going on. Spend time with others and do
your own thing to make the heart grow
fonder.
16) Slow It Down
Court her with a slow dance whenever
possible. While lovely at cousin Ed's
wedding or at a jazz club on Friday
night, surprise her with a turn around
the kitchen during macaroni and cheese
for impromptu romance.
17) Timing is Everything
Arrive on time for your date. Although
traffic and miscalculations can be
forgiven, consistently showing up late
sends the signal that her time isn't as
important as yours.
18) Remember that Family Matters
Introducing your new ladylove to your
family will demonstrate how important
she is in your life. The way you treat
your family presents a good gauge of
what she can expect in your courtship.
19) Surprise!
Catch her unaware with that fetching
coat she has been eyeing, a message on
her work voicemail or a note in her bag
lunch to keep her guessing and excited.
20) Soup for the Soul
Take care of her when she is under the
weather with a care package of cough
drops, chicken soup, or a get well note.
She may not feel (or look) her best, but
these moments will show that you are in
it to win it.
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