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7 Ways In Which You Hurt The Person You Love The Most!

Sometimes, you become so comfortable in the company of your loved ones that you start saying and doing things without even realizing that you are actually hurting them.

 

Even if it's your mother, father or a friend, you have gotten so used to these little habits of yours that now you don't see the difference. Therefore, you eventually end up being a mean or heartless person for them.

But my friend, don't forget one thing that these resentments might be the reason that the most dearly people of your life are drifting away.

 

In order to avoid that, here are 7 things you can check if you are unaware of hurting the people you love the most.

 

1. You are always trying to put them down.

If you are someone who talk to people in a manner to put them down, it only shows how unhappy and unfriendly you are.

Not only that, it also gradually infuses hard feelings in their heart. After all, nobody likes to feel humiliated.

2. You were not there when they needed you the most.

As you know, there is always a lot happening in life and sometimes so much that you can't handle it alone. At that time, you need your loved ones for all the support and love.

And when you hear them saying ' I AM BUSY', it automatically strains your relationship with them for the lifetime.

3. You have missed the important days in their lives.

Whether it's their birthday or a promotion, if they have invited you to celebrate their happiness and precious experiences, then it definitely means a lot to them.

 

At that point if you are someone who is not giving it that much importance, then you are making them highly disappointed and unhappy.

4. You are constantly ignoring them.

Do you remember that time when the love of your life ignored you?

Can you recall how it made you feel? Well, I am sure that it was the worst feeling in the world and you don't even want to talk about it. Similarly, when you ignore the people who matter to you, it fills their heart with despair.

 

5. Lack of communication.

Whether it's your best friend or your parents, at some point everybody wants to share their thoughts with the people close to their heart. If those words remain unspoken, it creates an unwanted gap in the relationship, which is nearly impossible to fill.

 

6. You unnecessarily shout at them.

Agree or not, nobody likes people in their life who raise their voice at them.

In fact, it is heart breaking when it is constant and without a valid reason. Don't you feel that rather than tolerating your nagging Behaviour, they should be spending time with someone who appreciates and respect them.

7. When you lie.

Even if you are lying for the smallest of reasons, it will hurt them.

There could be several reasons of you lying to your partner or parent or a friend, but don't forget that at the end of the day- a lie is always a lie. And sometimes it is so hurtful that it creates serious trust issues in the relationship.

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