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Reasons Why You Should Not Have s2x Before Marriage.

In what is fast becoming a very sexual world, one might wonder if there still the need for abstinence.
Here are 10 reasons to wait till marriage.

1. sex is a powerful force that can destroy if not used properly. Like atomic power, sex is the most powerful creative force given to man. When atomic power is used correctly it can create boundless energy; when it is used in the wrong way it destroys life.
sex is the same kind of powerful force.
sex is a gift from God to give us the
greatest pleasure, to help in creating a
deep companionship with one's spouse
and for procreation of the next generation. But if you play with this
powerful force outside the bounds of
marriage, it destroys you and those
close to you.

2. sexual activity for young people
arrests their psychological, social and
academic development. Studies show
that when young people engage in
premarital sex, their academic
performance declines and their social
relationships with family and friends
deteriorate. This is because adolescents
are too immature to deal with the
explosive sex drive and it tends to
dominate their life.

3. The majority of women cannot enjoy
sex outside of the bonds of marriage.
The development of a fulfilling sex life
needs the security and peace of the
marriage bond. Premarital sex usually
takes place sneaking around in hidden
places dealing with the fear of being
caught, the fear of pregnancy and
feelings of guilt. All these (worrisome)
factors undermine pleasure in
premarital sex, most especially for
women.

4. Virginity is to be given to the most
important person in your life, the person you committed yourself to stay with forever in marriage. Your virginity is the most precious thing you have to give to your spouse. Once you lose it,nothing in the world can bring it back.
Don't lose something so precious in a
thoughtless way.

5. Those who engage in premarital sex
run a high risk of contracting one of the
many venereal diseases rampant today,
as well as losing their fertility. Not just
AIDS, but other common disfiguring
diseases like herpes have no cure.

6. Some venereal diseases have no
symptoms and many couples discover
many years later that they became
infertile because of these diseases.
Infertility experts estimate that 80% of
today's infertility is due to venereal
diseases contracted before they
married.

7. The best and only method that
guarantees 100% against AIDS and
other sexually transmitted diseases is
to wait for marriage to have s*x and
maintain fidelity in your marriage.

8. Premarital sex breaks the 10
Commandments given by God. The 10
Commandments are given to man by
God to make man happy. They are not
outdated and they are not restrictive. If
we follow these laws, we can create
happy and prosperous lives. If we don't
follow them, we will pay a heavy price
in divorce, disease, abortions, illegitimate children and loneliness.
Modern men make a big mistake when
they think that they can break these
eternal laws and not suffer consequences.

9. Premarital sex runs the risk of
conceiving illegitimate children.
Numerous scientific studies show that
the children of single mothers suffer
psychologically and are less successful
socially and academically than children
from intact families. Above all, children
need both their father and their mother. It is wrong to risk having children who will never have their father's love, protection and care.

10. If you date and you don't have sex,
you can forget about that relationship
when you stop dating. But if you have
sex with those you date and then break
up, the nature of sexual involvement
creates strong, often unpleasant
memories for your whole life. Every
relationship you break up where you
had intimate relations is like a mini-
divorce. The psychological difficulties of
these mini-divorces does damage to
your character. Later, when you are
married and go to bed with your
beloved spouse, these unpleasant
memories will accompany you.
True love waits. If a boy or girl truly
loves you, they will want the best for
you. They will not want you to suffer
fear of disease, unwanted pregnancy
and the psychological difficulties of
premarital sex. They will want to
experience love with you only in the
very best place of all – the love nest of
marriage.
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